SACRAMENTO — The silence helped Mary Hayashi find her voice.
It trapped her older sister in a cage of depression, eventually ending in her suicide at 17. And it enveloped Hayashi's family afterward. Hayashi's parents burned her sister Bo Yoon's clothes and cut her image out of photographs. A funeral was never held, and her parents have quietly avoided the subject in the nearly 30 years since.
It led Hayashi, a first-term Democratic Assemblywoman from Castro Valley, to a long exploration of her South Korean roots and the Asian American culture of silence surrounding the taboo subject of mental illness — and a determination to confront that taboo straight on.